Ricky

So after all the craziness of Maggie, we learned that Selective IgA is genetic. We had to test Ricky to see if he to was IgA deficient. The results showed that, like Maggie, he to had Selective Iga. But unlike his big sister, he had a minimal amount and was young enough that maybe it could improve. So in the short time span of a couple months I had 2 children with a primary immune deficiency and a lot to learn. Overwhelming and scared are understatements for what I was feeling. And I felt very alone. As much as people tried to help or understand, they just couldn't get it. I struggled to read up and understand the ins and outs. And trying to explain what I was trying hard to absorb felt exhausting.

There are all kinds of numbers and questions on IgA's and IgG's but in the end my babies will have to face obstacles others won't. We have become zealous about handwashing. And try to steer as clear of germs as possible (almost impossible). But in the end I have 2 gorgeous, strong and amazing kids. I know in my heart and soul that they are in God's Hands and no matter what this journey brings - it will all be okay.