I have learned in life that I chose how I view the things that happen in my life. It is all about the perspective. When something happens I can take the negative view and wallow in pity, anger or resentment. Or I can look at it and find the positive. I can see the miracles and blessings. I try to be on the positive side. Even with the worst scenario, I can usually find on silver lining.
The past week has been a bit crazy and I felt a bit overloaded at times. The situation with my Mom is what it is. Life is happening as it does and I can complain and be cranky or..... I would much rather spend my time filled with peace and be happy. So I chose to frame the changes as gifts. It is a gift that Maggie gets to spend more time with her Grandma. It is a gift that I get to take my Mom to the doctor and pay back for all the times she took me. It is a gift to have her for dinner and enjoy her company.
So when I get frustrated with her or my siblings. When I feel crunched for time or overdone and tired. When I have had enough of the drama that may come with 8 siblings and a mother in need. I will remember that this situation and all that comes with it is a gift from God. I just need to do the footwork and let God handle the results. My Mother, as frustrating and complicated as our relationship can be, is a blessing. I am thankful for the chance to be grateful and present in whatever she needs.
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